COVID-19 Update

Dear Families,

With a very broken heart, we are writing today to share with you that Camp Watitoh will not be opening this upcoming summer. We know how surreal and devastating this is to read and to process. It is the same for us as we write this letter to you. We are so grateful for your patience during these last few months, and especially these past few weeks while we were living with the uncertainty of the summer.

For months we have been cautiously optimistic about opening camp, making contingency plans and hoping for a clear path to emerge for us to open in a safe manner. We’ve been participating in seminars with colleagues, speaking with health officials, evaluating the accuracy of testing, and listening for more guidance from the state of Massachusetts. Unfortunately, even amidst all of these conversations and analysis, that path has not come to fruition for us.

It was important that we took the time to exhaust all possible scenarios before making this decision and we so appreciate your patience. We know it hasn’t been easy. At this point we feel no stone has been left unturned. In the end, we needed more certainty about this unknown virus to feel that we could keep our campers and staff emotionally and physically safe in a way that you trust us to do every summer.

We know this email does not come as a surprise, especially with so many camps making similar decisions. At the same time, it is still extremely disappointing. Attached you will find some resources to help speak with your child(ren) about this news and help them process this message. Campers are going to be sad, disappointed, angry, confused, and everything in between. Some of them may even be relieved because they were nervous about coming to camp under these circumstances. It is so important to give them the time and attention they need to get through this.

What we do know more than ever is that Watitoh is about the people and not the physical place. If we have learned anything the last few months, it is the strength of our community and relationships. It is those people who will get us through until we can be living the dream together for our 85th summer in person in 2021. We know that we will pick up right where we left off - developing friendships, building independence, and having fun in a warm, welcoming, supportive community.

We realize that there are many questions surrounding this decision, the financials, and what happens moving forward. Please click the Summer 2020 FAQ button below to find the answers to some of the most common questions and we welcome additional ones.

Please share this video message from us when you share this news with your camper(s). We will continue to connect with our camp family in the safest ways we can over the summer and until we can be together again. We will miss all of you so deeply this summer.

With love and hugs,
Britton and Drew

Summer 2020 FAQs

15 Camp Lessons the Kids Will Never Forget

Here are five camp lessons they’ll learn and keep with them for life.

TO HAVE SCREEN-FREE FUN

Camp is truly one of the last unplugged environments for children that allows them to connect with others. “We grew up in a different time. We weren’t obsessed with our iPhones and iPads,” says Britton Bitterman, director of Camp Watitoh, a coed overnight camp in the Massachusetts’ Berkshires. “One of the greatest benefits of camp these days is for children to be removed from their screens and learn to communicate face-to-face, which they don’t necessarily know how to do. This is a skill they’ll need throughout their lifetime from friendships to romantic relationships to the workplace. Our campers enjoy the break from social media and value the emotional connection they form here at camp.”

INDEPENDENCE

Charles Maltzman, owner and director of Willow Lake Day Camp in Lake Hopatcong, says that self-sufficiency happens at camp every day. “Camps offer elective activities for children as they get older to help build independence,” Maltzman says. “They get to decide if they want to do jewelry making with their best friend or cooking with someone they don’t know with the chance of meeting new friends. Both decisions are awesome. One is trying something new with Sally, or making the decision that you don’t need to do an activity with a friend.” Bitterman feels that children are so connected to their parents from the moment they start daycare or preschool, and this gives them the chance to do things on their own and gain the camp lessons they need. “From early on in life, parents receive daily reports and videos, learning everything about what’s happening every minute of the day,” Bitterman says. “But at camp, children are able to try new things and step outside of their comfort zone, gaining independence from their parents and home life, which is instrumental in a child’s development.”

TO APPRECIATE THE VALUE OF MENTORS

Camp provides children with the opportunity to learn from adults other than their parents. “Children are surrounded by camp directors, counselors and head counselors, learning to trust other adults to help with friendship issues or a new activity,” explains Bitterman. “Oftentimes, people will talk about a teacher or professor who was a mentor in their life, but that doesn’t usually happen until later in life. At camp, children have 20- or 21-year-old role models who are able to be like a big brother or sister to help guide them through the challenges of childhood.” Maltzman says camp counselors can often get a child to try something that Mom and Dad can’t. “Parents are parents, and they usually can’t get their kid to try a new activity like soccer, or a new food like broccoli. But when their 22-year-old counselor says it, children react in a different way to them.”

CONFIDENCE

Camp provides many opportunities for kids to feel good about themselves. “Every camper gets their 15 minutes of fame at camp, where someone says ‘wow, you are good at that.’ There is something for everyone at camp. Maybe someone isn’t the best athlete, but they are great in the talent show bouncing on a pogo stick reciting a poem,” says Maltzman. “Everything camps do is intentional and sets a child up for success. When a camper tries something, there is a plan for them if they don’t succeed. If they get to the top of the zip line in the first week of camp but just can’t jump, there will be another opportunity in week two or three. Camp is a less pressured environment, and the only peer pressure is the positive peer pressure from friends saying, ‘you can do it.’”

RESILIENCY

Life is full of ups and downs, and it’s important to prepare our children for the times when things aren’t going to go their way. Of all the camp lessons they can learn, this one gives them grit. “Today’s generation of children are not as resilient as they were in the past because many parents don’t allow them to fail,” says Bitterman. “Camp is a safe environment to make mistakes and learn from those mistakes. There will be times at camp when a camper is missing home, or a moment on the sports field that wasn’t great, but these all become opportunities for children to test their resilience.”

—Jess Michaels is the director of communications for the American Camp Association (ACA), NY and NJ, a not-for-profit organization dedicated to enhancing the summer camp experience. For free, one-on-one advice when searching for a camp, call the ACA at 212-391-5208.

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The above article was originally published by NJ family on January 19, 2020.  It can be found here: https://www.njfamily.com/5-camp-lessons-the-kids-will-never-forget/